Five Lessons I learned from cleaning my own Toilet
I was away on a family trip for the last 5 days. A long pending tasks before commencing the journey was to clean my bathroom, which I finally managed to do some twenty minutes ago. While cleaning, I gained enlightenment – understood some life’s reality due to the very process of the cleaning. I share some five lessons from that enlightenment. Remember, cleaning the Toilet is an allegory to the real life here.
1. Its easy to be shitting around, but when you have to clean your own shit you start getting responsible with it.
It is very easy for anyone to spread the dirt – back-bite, bitch about, scams and spams, etc but when you have to clean your own mess you start realizing what a pain it is. End result, the next time you shit, you know how to do it in a responsible fashion so that you can do the cleaning up later and not get dirty.
2. Don’t mess up with stains that you cant clean, you will only get dirty.
OK! When you start the cleaning up remember there are some stains, some grime that you cant clean. You just don’t have the skills yet. When such is the case don’t mess with that stuff, you will only get dirty and achieve nothing. Similarly in life, you are not supposed to do everything and work at everything. Know your domain or you will be nowhere.
3. Not all grime can be cleaned by you, leave the tough ones for the experts.
Refer to point above. Not everything can be done by you. You don’t have all the skills – you are good at something but at the cost of being not-so-good at something else. Don’t waste your time and efforts doing stuff someone else can do better than you. Concentrate on what you can do best, let the rest of the stuff be tackled by specific experts.
4. If you make mistakes, some scarring will always happen.
It was never a good idea to let the dirt settle over time. When I let that happen, I make a mistake. The better approach would have been to be pro-active (being lazy doesn’t help) and run a continuous process of cleaning which wouldn’t let stains set. Now that I made the mistake, no matter what I do, I wont be able to get rid of everything. Some scars will always remain. So in life, think before you act. Watch out, before you make a mistake. For once you have committed it, there is no turning back and damage control won’t be complete. Some scarring will always happen.
5. No matter how well you clean it, it will never be 100%.
No matter how well you clean the grime, some one will be able to find faults with it. No matter how much time and effort you put into things, there will always be people who are not satisfied, who criticize. It will not do good to waste your efforts in pleasing them. It is not humanly possible to please everyone. So don’t waste your resources trying it. Learn to move on and learn to heed only to those who count. Don’t get dejected, disappointed. And next time, make a better attempt. Learn, Grow, and Evolve.
Now that the sermon is over, let me rest. Coming up next are tidbits from my recent trip and a rant on how infrastructure still sucks in India and what can be done about it.
Kinshuk





